When It Comes to Building the Body You Want, the Journey is the Destination

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We want, and deserve, results from our hard work.

When we go to the gym consistently, get stronger, and eat well, we want to see the results immediately.

And quick results isn’t enough; we want to reach our main goal as soon as possible.

“How quickly can I go from where I am to where I want to be?” we ask.

It’s a valid question and one we all ask whether we’re trying to lose fat, buy a house, finish school, get out of debt, or break free from binge eating. We want to go from Point A to Point B in the shortest time possible.

But, and this is really the important part . . .

The journey is the destination.

“Are we there yet?” Yes, this is the phrase we’ve all uttered, especially during a long car ride. But, it’s also what we think on our own health and fitness journeys.

Whether we’re striving to lose fat, get crazy strong, or just look better in our favorite pair of jeans, we want to reach the final destination as quickly as possible.

“Once I reach [insert your goal] then I’ll be happy,” we exclaim.

Ideally we could push the fast-forward button on the whole “eat well and train consistently” story line and get to the ending.

But if that’s how we truly think, we’ve missed the point entirely. The journey IS the destination.

The journey is where we learn, grow, mature, and become stronger, more awesome versions of ourselves. The journey is the most important part.

“Happiness is a journey, not a destination; happiness is to be found along the way not at the end of the road, for then the journey is over and it’s too late. The time for happiness is today not tomorrow.”

~Paul H Dunn

“Focus on the journey, not the destination. Joy is found not in finishing an activity but in doing it.”

~Greg Anderson

So instead of trying to reach our goals as quickly as possible, we need to make it a priority to enjoy the journey itself by immersing ourselves in the process, and to make the most of every opportunity.

Instead of asking, “How fast can I get through this?” we need to be asking, “How can I make the most of every single day and become a stronger, more awesome version of myself as I get closer to my goals?”

And we especially need to celebrate whenever possible.

We’re so quick to beat ourselves up if we overeat a bit or miss a workout, but we don’t take the time to relish in our victories and mediate on the amazing things we’ve accomplished.

That’s the complete opposite of what we should be doing. If we eat a bit too much or miss a workout, we need to forget about it and move on. And when we eat foods that make us feel great and get stronger in the gym, we should acknowledge those incredible accomplishments, celebrate, and be proud of them.

So how can YOU enjoy the journey instead of focusing too much on the end goal?

It doesn’t matter if you’re trying to shed body fat, build a freaky strong deadlift, or reach another strength goal, you can apply the following tips.

For one, ditch rapid fat loss and quick-fix methods. They do more harm than good.

Other than that . . .

  • Enjoy every meal you eat. Eat foods that taste good and make you feel great.
  • Be present during your next workout, and pay attention to every set of every exercise you perform. Be proud of your physical abilities.
  • Say some kind things to yourself throughout the day. Always make it a point to compliment yourself; never say negative things.
  • Remember that consistency will always trump perfection.
  • Take a moment to reflect on what you’ve already accomplished, and be proud!

Live your life and the journey to build a stronger, healthier, more functional body one day at a time.

And enjoy the journey, my friend, because it’s far more important than the end goal.

If you want a proven system for becoming a stronger, more awesome version of yourself and actually enjoy the journey, then Click Here to check out the Train to Be Awesome Guide.

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  • Pamela Martin

    Nia- this is SO TRUE! In the past I had always wished I could just go from A-Z without all of the time it takes to get there. Only since starting this weight training journey have I actually ENJOYED the time in between A-Z!

    “The journey is where we learn, grow, mature, and become stronger, more awesome versions of ourselves”

    This part is SOOOOO true! I find that now I would not trade the journey for anything! I marvel daily how I no longer stress what I used to and am SO much happier as a result. I don’t worry about every bite of food that goes into my mouth, every hour I spend sitting on the couch relaxing and I haven’t weighed myself (which used to be a several times/day habit) in I don’t know how long. It’s amazing the freedom that comes from truly not caring what the number is on the scale but rather what the number is on the barbell. The confidence I’ve gained with strength training has made me a more sexy person all by itself- let alone the definition I’m developing in my body as I gain awesome muscle mass! And to see myself in the mirror and notice that body fat is melting off of me seemingly without effort due to that gain in muscle… SO awesome! Without the journey I wouldn’t have come to appreciate these changes as much as I have nor would I have developed this balanced passion to experience more of it.

    I would encourage anyone reading your website who has been thinking about strength training to just GO FOR IT! Start by signing up for the email list and following the BBA mini- course. You will be SO glad you did! Don’t wait for the ideal time or to have all of the right equipment- use what you have (squat holding a child or a chair or something until you can get to a gym or get the weights you need if you have to) and just DO IT! Yes, it will be work, but when you can finish grunting through a set where your body was screaming to stop and then find youreself smiling from ear to ear from what you just did- that feeling is amazing and empowering and just cannot be replaced!