How to Rid Your Life of Fitness & Nutrition Insanity

Insanity

There’s been a rise of what I’m terming  fitness and nutrition insanity. On a daily basis I’m bombarded with emails from women who are frantic, confused, frustrated, and stressed out from their nutrition and workout regimen. Their intentions are good — they want to improve their health, performance in the gym, and physique. But, they’re revolving their lives around eating and working out. They don’t know how to maintain their newly sculpted bodies or eat and workout without micromanaging every aspect of nutrition and training.

It’s because of these ever increasing emails, messages, and comments from my clients that I’m writing this article.

Let’s move on.

When you can step back and force yourself to strip things down to the bare essentials, and you stop following strict, rigid guidelines that have been whittling away at your sanity and energy, there’s a tremendous relief. It’s as if a huge burden has been removed from your shoulders, and . . . ahhhh . . . you can breath again. It’s my goal that by the end of this article, you too can experience that relief.

I encourage people who feel overwhelmed or trapped in OCD eating patterns to simplify everything and take the Sane and Simple Nutrition approach. Stop obsessing over what has a higher quality nutrition profile, or what has more antioxidants between strawberries and blackberries. Stop stressing over consuming the best sources of protein. Stop making yourself avoid social gatherings out of fear of eating something you think should be ”off limits”. With working out, stop worrying if it’s more optimal to perform six reps or five, or if you should rest 60 seconds or 30 seconds between sets.

We’ve become obsessed with obsessing about health and fitness. We argue, debate, nitpick, research, tweet, blog, think, try and then give up on countless health fitness theories on a daily basis, all in the name of chasing the promise of ‘health’.

This is something I have grown tired of – especially the endless promotion of obsession as health, exhaustion as virtue and suffering as dedication.

-Brad Pilon

There are far more important things in life to be concerned with than wasting precious time on the minutiae of health or building a better looking body. Yes, I love fitness – it’s a huge part of my life. But I especially love helping people who have walked a similar path that I’ve experienced first hand in regards to disordered eating patterns and spending copious amounts of time and energy thinking about food or performing grueling workouts.

I know what it’s like to revolve my life around an eating schedule. I know what it’s like to have food on my mind every second of the day, from the moment I wake up until I fall asleep, only to repeat the same process the next day. I fell victim to OCD eating habits and wanted to break free.

I know what it’s like to revolve my life around a workout schedule. Training to complete and utter fatigue and exhaustion on a near daily basis. I know what it’s like to feel overwhelmed, lost, hopeless, and frustrated because I just wanted a simple way to eat and train for better health and a great looking body. I didn’t want to stress about it everyday!

Thankfully, because of my personal experience, I can better help those who have, or are, struggling with a similar battle.

Yes, some people have no trouble whatsoever with meal plans, counting calories, and following a more rigid nutrition regimen. In fact, some people thrive on this sort of plan. If that’s you, then that’s awesome and I encourage you to keep doing what you enjoy and what works for you.

However, if you feel overly stressed out from your nutrition and if your life revolves around thoughts of food, then perhaps you can benefit from this article; that’s my sincerest hope.

Insanity – doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results.

~Albert Einstein

How Can We Apply the Term “Insanity” to Nutrition?

Simple – how many times have you enthusiastically started a new diet or eating regimen? You saw the latest and greatest new thing and with fierce determination you started immediately.

How often did you end up stressed out and frustrated, only to give up entirely? And, more than likely, a little time passes, you come across the latest fad, and once again you start this new promising program full of gusto.

Insanity. You keep doing the same thing – starting a rigid, stressful eating regimen you can’t maintain long-term – and end up with the same results: frustration, disappointment, and moving on searching for the next potential “solution”.

How Can We Apply the  Term “Insanity” to Workouts?

In my experience, most people primarily experience “insanity” with nutrition and eating patterns. But, some people do the same with their workouts. First, allow me to share a message I received on my Facebook page (emphasis added):

Throughout 25 years of cardio & yo-yo dieting, I only ever managed to lose & subsequently re-gain the same amount of weight (if not more) each time, resulting in me becoming obese and unable to walk up the stairs at home without getting out of breath. I made a decision 18 months ago to put a stop to all that once and for all. Initially I started the same as usual because I didn’t know there was any other way, ie lots of steady cardio & low fat/calorie route and achieved the same old results. However, the difference this time, was once I hit the inevital plateau, I plucked up the courage to sign up with a personal trainer in Sept last year. Fortunately for me, he promotes weight lifting/strength training for women together with straightforward nutrition. I developed a passion for lifting, which in turn made me hungry for more information and researching on the internet led me to GGS! Needless to say, I have never looked back.

As you can see, she experienced nutrition and workout insanity first hand, on multiple occasions. She did the same thing over and over, and got (or, didn’t get) the same results. In her case it was relying heavily on cardio, in regards to workout insanity.

It’s particularly common for women to resort to cardio machines in hopes of attaining a better looking body. But, and this is happening more much these days, women go to the gym with the sole goal of training to complete and utter exhaustion. Now, I’m all for training hard, but you shouldn’t aim to finish each workout totally worn out. You shouldn’t be on the verge of vomiting during every training session.

Some women nowadays go to the gym religiously, workout incredibly hard, and after attempting to maintain that frantic, relentless pace for weeks and months on end, they end up burned out and/or injured. Going to the gym becomes a dreadful chore, and oftentimes workouts get skipped. Because some women possess this “train till I puke or I didn’t workout hard enough” mentality, they think there’s no point in working out at all if they can’t maintain crazy high intensiveness. (Again, if you do this with your training and love it, then keep on keeping on.)

Many of these women give up completely after a while because they can’t maintain the neck-break pace. Then, after being riddled with guilt for not working out, they pick up where they left off only to repeat the cycle yet again. Insanity.

If you nodded your head in agreement as you read through this article, it’s time to get off the insanity train. It’s time to do something different.

How to Rid Your Life of Fitness & Nutrition Insanity

Take a step back, and simplify as much as possible — that’s the first thing you must do. Follow a few basic strength training and nutrition principles and let the other details sort themselves out. You can find numerous articles right here on this website, or you can check out Beautiful Badass for more detailed information.

One of the main reasons I created the Lift Like a Girl Guide is because I can’t work one-on-one with every lady in the world, and I want to help as many as possible. In fact, one of my primary goals it to help women who are sick and tired of revolving their lives around eating and working out and are craving for a simple solution so they don’t have to spend unnecessary time thinking about those things.

The decision is yours, but if you’re frustrated and don’t want to constantly obsess over your training and nutrition regimen, I encourage you to get off the insanity train right now. Keep it simple and get more results in less time.

 

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  • Jennifer

    Awesome Nia! I will be reading this over ad over again as I try to stop the insanity and cut out the BS! I’m wondering if you wrote this right after my email lol ;-)

    • Nia Shanks

      I actually started on this last week. :)

  • Joy

    Another great post as usual Nia! Passing this on to quite a few friends of mine and family who have heard this from me, but need another voice. I Usually hear, “It’s easier for you because of your genes, being in the Corps, because you are a striking coach and are active almost all day long-and while these things are true, I don’t obsess over how many tablespoons of almond butter I’ve eaten or how long my sparring/grappling/training sessions are(they’re actually pretty short!) Many great and beautiful women I know are needlessly killing themselves by overtraining, under eating, not sleeping well, and don’t see what I do. Thank you for writing this.

    • Nia Shanks

      Thanks for commenting, Joy. And thank you for passing this along.

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  • Cassye

    Great post, love your stuff, Nia! You’ve been the voice of reason for me throughout my 16 month transformation. As a result I am so confident and able to navigate my way through most every food/workout situation. So glad to have your support, even though we’ve never met!

    • Nia Shanks

      Always, girl! I’m here to help any way possible.

  • Caroline

    Great article Nia. Absolutely spot on once again. Still struggling with occasional feelings of guilt when a training session doesn’t leave me collapsed in a heap of sweat on the gym floor, but thanks to the ongoing support all the girls at GGS provide with their blogs & articles, I am learning all the time about how to benefit the most from a workout without “killing myself” each time. Am also applying the GGS advice to my nutrition and you are all absolutely right. It isn’t easy to changed 25 years of bad habits, but step by step I am making those changes and reaping the benefits! : – )

    • Nia Shanks

      Awesome, Caroline!

  • http://twitter.com/GrainneMurphy Gráinne

    Your stuff always resonates with me, Nia! I’m still working on the exercise bit, but the diet in particular makes sense! I spent 2 years frozen into inaction because the thought of following a plan and giving up everything was so awful to me. When I decided to just make small changes and keep things I liked (fruit! dairy! chocolate!), it was all so much more manageable. Down around 20/25lbs since June by eating foods I like but less of them.

    • Nia Shanks

      Awesome, lady! Glad you’ve found what works for you.

      • http://twitter.com/GrainneMurphy Gráinne

        Getting there! Your writing and GGS helped for sure. Thankfully nobody preached absolutes!

      • http://twitter.com/GrainneMurphy Gráinne

        And I stuck with my plan of not going near the scales. I knew starting weight from gym assessment when I did a trial in June (they weren’t supposed to tell me but I saw it) and know weight now because of doctor’s office. Was just looking at a log of somebody in a forum who was tracking weight daily to the decimal point and freaking out over 0.4lb changes. I’d never have coped!

  • Hayley

    Wow great article! I am also tired of every “genre” of fitness harping on the other. Get resistance training in, cardio, and some peaceful yoga. I love cross fit, but I also love just going for a jog sometimes or doing some yoga. I don’t like it when I hear others touting that their way is the BEST way. The best way is what works for you and that you will stick to.

    • Nia Shanks

      Completely agree!

  • Naomi(onefitfoodie)

    i cannot say enough amazing things about this post…I reposted it on my page and tweeted about it all over again. It needs to be read and needs to be understood because it is SO impportant for staying physically, mentally and emotionally HEALTHY :)

    It is so easy to say ‘just stop thinking about it so much and it will happen’ but really this is exactly what needs to be done.

    Your words are so true, so well said and needs to be shared ALL OVER. I am sure about 90% of women can relate to this. Getting over that feeling of guilt for skipping a workout or eating a cupcake can be such a mental battle but once it is learned and engraied that it is OKAY…this is the moment where everything will just flow with ease.

    you are such an inspiration, Nia!

    • Nia Shanks

      Thank you for the kind words, Naomi. And thank you for spreading the article!

  • Naomi (HealthforHelp)

    Great article!! I am a trainer and Physiotherapist and LOVE cooking and eating natural, I love knowing what is in my food and could spend forever in a grocery store but it is fun for ME. I encourage everyone to find a blend that works for them and to remember that being stressed out is not healthy!!! Love the message here and I am glad it is being spread, to each their own, find a healthy balance that works for YOU!

    • Nia Shanks

      Awesomeness!

  • http://www.melanietesta.com Melly Testa

    I just started working out. My current weight is 118, I am 5’2″. I like this weight. I am vegetarian, I eat well, though I admit I could eat leaner. But right now, I don’t want to. Right now, I am focusing on form and consistency. Those are my current goals. When I feel I have those two things down and I want to tinker with cutting some fats, I will. If that becomes important.
    I do read lots of fitness blogs and I find myself a twitter with ideas, this tends to scatter my focus and I need to pull myself back in. It’s like reading fashion magazines and comparing my body to a 6′ tall, airbrushed 16 year old, I am in my early 40s. I know I shouldn’t do this, and I turn that channel off.
    All I can do is today’s workout. And not eat too many treats. :)

    • Nia Shanks

      Thanks for sharing!

  • ZugTheMegasaurus

    This was so important for me to figure out before I could actually get healthy. I spent the last nine years or so being really overweight (who am I kidding, obese, but for some reason I’ve never used that word). I’d go on diet kicks, sure…and follow all the advice from hour-long cardio sessions until the point of literal fainting to six evenly-paced small meals per day to every diet snack bar and metabolism booster on the market. And I was MISERABLE, but as far as I knew, losing weight and working out were *supposed* to be miserable.

    Then, this year, I thought, “Screw it. I’ll eat whatever and whenever makes me feel best. I’ll find some exercise I enjoy even if it doesn’t burn a million calories or take all day.” I started doing everything wrong according to the conventional wisdom. Huge meals including full-fat items (gasp!) with long breaks in between (won’t that bring your metabolism to a screeching halt?), trying a wide variety of strength training options (OMG, you’ll get bulky!) and eschewing long cardio sessions entirely (but how will I ever burn those precious calories?). I ENJOY what I eat and do and am not remotely miserable.

    The result? I’ve lost 50 pounds and still going strong. My self-worth and self-esteem are higher than ever before. And figuring out what works optimally for me has (and here’s a shocker) made me feel awesome physically for probably the first time in my entire life. Because I stopped listening to the ubiquitous advice out there that prescribes misery and self-flagellation. Who knew?

    • Nia Shanks

      Wow. Incredible. You rock! Thank you for sharing.

  • dlh

    WOW! Thank you SO much for this great post! It’s so freeing. For the better part of 10 years I weighed 125 lbs at 5′ 6″ and was obsessed with working out twice a day at least 5 days a week, fretted over every morsel of food I put in my body, etc. I can’t recall exactly what occurred to get me out of that insane lifestyle, but today I’m 47 years old, 135 lbs, happier and stronger than ever! I discovered the kettlebell about 6 years ago, and am so thankful for condensed, intense workouts that can take as little as 15 minutes! I no longer obsess over how often I workout, I have more muscle and am stronger than I’ve ever been, and I eat, within reason, whatever my body wants. Thank you Nia! You’re the best, LOVE your philosophy!

    • Nia Shanks

      AWESOME! I love reading stories like this. Thank you for sharing.

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  • Ashley

    Thank you for this post! As a trainer it is so nice to see that there are other professionals out there that share the same thoughts and philosophy around nutrition and exercise. I believe that unless someone is an athlete there is no need to get caught up in optimal training and diet regimens.

    The only things that most people need to do to feel and look better is to focus on eating real foods, sleeping, managing stress and moving their bodies in a way that they enjoy. The obsessive nature of our society around calories burnt and fat grams consumed ect; is madness!

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  • http://twitter.com/boboTjones Erin Ptacek

    The next time someone hassles me about my not-diet self-experimentation, I’m going to send them this article. No matter how many times I tell people I’m working to find a regimen I can live with, they don’t seem to get it. “You shouldn’t be eating that.” “You should be doing these exercises.” Walk in my shoes, first, please?

    Thanks, Nia. Once again, well said. :-)

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