8 Reasons Women Should Strength Train

Nia Shanks 330 Pound Deadlift

Before we dive head first into the meat ‘n taters of this article, I must bring something to your attention: the title of this article is 8 Reasons Why Women Should Strength Train. I want you to pay attention and focus on the last two words of the title – strength train.

I could’ve used other words instead of “strength train” such as lift weights, workout, exercise, or numerous other words. Nonetheless, I chose “strength train” for several important reasons.

“Strength train” means to train with the purpose of getting stronger. Yeah, I know that almost sounds stupid to point out, but many people lose sight of this fact. Don’t forget that important point as we move further into the article where I reveal 8 reasons why women should strength train.

And, hopefully, it’s understood that by “strength train” I mean primarily focusing on compound exercises such as squats, deadlifts, lunges, hip thrusts, push-ups, presses, chin-ups, rows, parallel bar dips and other barbell, dumbbell, and bodyweight movements (or similar variations).

If you didn’t know, well, now you do.

1. Increase Self-Confidence and “See What You’re Made of”

This is a tremendous benefit of spending quality, consistent time with heavy iron.

Greater self-confidence is a strength training benefit you may not perceive at first, but it’s a great perk nonetheless. Most women aren’t aware of the physical, and mental, strength they truly possess. However, once they increase their strength and start squatting and deadlifting well over their bodyweight, or busting out flawless sets of push-ups, inverted rows, chin-ups and parallel bar dips, they become aware of their true abilities.

It’s very common for this newfound realization in the weight room to carry-over into everyday life. Getting stronger and performing physical feats you didn’t know you were capable of will teach you “what you are made of” and increase your self-confidence to new levels. This is something trainees who have used the (S)hero Training Program have reported.

Yes, it will be challenging and you’ll have to work hard and train consistently, but you will be able to perform chin-ups with your bodyweight. You will be able to deadlift twice your bodyweight. Those goals can be achieved, in addition to many others, and it will as long as you train hard, train smart, and train consistently.

2. Build the Body You Really Want

Hours upon hours of cardio every week is not the best way to build a lean and strong body. Most women want to lean down or “tone up”; they want lower levels of body fat and feminine curves. Unfortunately when most women decide to start exercising, they automatically start doing hours of cardio each and every week. If they do “strength train”, it’s usually by way of machines or dumbbell exercises with very light weight for high reps.

If you want to shed body fat, build some rockin’ feminine curves and look better in (and out of) your clothes, then you need to lift weights (barbells, dumbbells, your bodyweight, kettlebells, etc) and get stronger.

Check out this video of me and the Girls Gone Strong crew; this was the first get together with the GGS co-founders. Every lady in this video has amazing shoulders, arms, midsections, butts (seriously amazing derrieres), and legs. These bodies were built from barbell, dumbbell, bodyweight, and kettlebell exercises. None of us are afraid to move around heavy weight, and neither should you.

Don’t listen to the cardio queens or gurus who tell women not to lift more than five pounds; heavy, consistent strength training is how you build a strong, healthy, and lean body. And, as you saw in the video, lifting heavy weight does NOT make you big ‘n bulky.

Here’s a sample training program that will help you achieve maximum results with minimum training time.

3. Positive Goals

If you strength train with the primary goal of improving your performance in the gym, you are setting yourself up for success. Too many women enter the gym, mount a piece of cardio equipment, and track the calories burned as displayed by the machine. That becomes their only focus and concern in the gym – burning more and more calories.

Unlike cardio, strength training is a great way to set positive, motivating goals that will keep you going to the gym week after week, month after month, and year after year. And, not to mention, allow you to achieve the body transforming results you’re after.

Don’t focus on going to the gym just to burn fat and calories. Set performance goals and adjust your strength training program accordingly. Train hard and make it a goal to bust out sets of push-ups and chin-ups with your bodyweight. Strive to squat and deadlift 1.5 times your bodyweight. Or maybe you want to learn how to perform the Olympic lifts, or want to get into kettlebell training.

It doesn’t matter what training tools you prefer; just set positive, performance oriented goals.

Once you achieve some of those goals, your body will have transformed, and you’ll enjoy the journey it took to get there.

Enter the gym and think about nothing but beating your previous workout. Last week you may have squatted 95 pounds for eight reps. This week squat that same 95 pounds for nine or 10 reps, or add weight and squat 100 pounds for eight reps. Whatever you do, improve your performance one way or another!

Here is a sample progression using the squat example above:

  • Week 1 – Squat 95x4x5 (95 pounds, 4 sets, 5 reps each set)
  • Week 2 – Squat 95x4x6
  • Week 3 – Squat 100x4x5
  • Week 4 – Squat 100x4x6

That is an example of double-progression (increasing weight and reps over time), and I use it with some of the programs in Beautiful Badass with great success.

Setting positive goals is something I’m very passionate about and it’s a key point I stress to all of my clients. Even if your only concern is losing body fat and looking better in a swimsuit, you should still set positive, motivating performance goals in the weight room.

Focusing and training to constantly improve your performance is by far the best way to build the body you truly want, no matter what goals you set or the training tools you use. It will be fun and motivating, and as you improve your performance levels, fat loss just becomes an incredible side effect.

You can stop focusing on fat loss but still reap the benefits of losing body fat!

4. Stress Relief

Once you’re deadlifting or squatting twice your bodyweight, you won’t get overwhelmed or upset by the little things that occur in everyday life. So what if your coworker made a stupid comment at work – you can deadlift twice your bodyweight, for reps.

Long day at work that didn’t go quite as planned? Get in the gym, follow your training program, and beat last week’s workout. Strength training is a great way to relieve stress in a positive and productive manner.

After setting some personal records in the gym, you may have completely forgotten about what upset you to begin with.

5. Leading by Example

If you take a look around in the media, you’ll see that there’s a shortage of positive role models for young women. Granted, there are amazing female athletes spreading a great message, but they aren’t the ones receiving the majority of the attention.

Training for strength, improving your health, and becoming the best you possible is a great way to teach the generations behind us; leading by example is much more powerful than words. This is something to keep in mind if you have daughters – show them that women can be physically strong. Show them that you go to the gym to build strength and improve your performance because you have positive goals.

Don’t let the generations behind you think all that matters is getting skinny and losing body fat. Show them the more positive, rewarding journey of strength training.

Lead by example.

6. Other Methods for Building a Better Body have Failed

Many of my clients have come to me as a “last resort” to achieve their goals. They’ve tried other methods of fat loss (fad diets, popular workouts, gimmick exercise machines, etc) that left them stressed, frustrated, burned out, and with less money in their wallets.

When they give me the reins and allow me to teach them how to properly strength train, they finally start achieving the goals they’ve longed for, and in much less time than they thought was necessary. Forget the fads and gimmicks – improving your performance through strength training is the real way to get results.

If you’re new to the world of strength training, be sure to check out this article: 11 Beginner Strength Training Tips for Women.

7. Prevent Diseases such as Osteopenia and Osteoporosis

Let’s face it; most women workout because they want to look better. However, there are numerous health benefits to strength training that must not be ignored. This benefit may not be as sexy as the previous reasons why women should strength train, but it’s very important for women to participate in load bearing activities to prevent conditions and diseases such as osteopenia.

This just goes to show that strength training has benefits beyond the aesthetic realm. Sure, lifting weights and getting stronger will allow you to look better naked, but it can also greatly improve your health and quality of life. Do not lose sight of this important fact.

8. Bring Out the Best YOU

I’m a trainer, and I have been for almost 10 years. My job isn’t to help women look like some airbrushed, photoshopped model they saw on the cover of the latest magazine.

No, I take pride in training women so they can bring out the best in them. Each woman is unique and has her own strengths and goals. Some are naturally good at deadlifting. Some are better at squatting. Some prefer training with kettlebells. Others may gravitate to the world of strongman training.

It’s not about imitating or trying to look like anyone else or attempting to fit some “ideal body” as determined by society.

It’s about highlighting and taking advantage of your own unique talents and physical features and abilities.

It’s about being the best you. It’s about Training to be Awesome.

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  • Emily

    It allowed me to start dancing again…. when at age 35, I thought my dance career was over for good. Plagued with back problems since 2005, in 2010, I had one final and unforgettable episode which left me lying on my stomach for a week unable to walk, eat, sit. I popped so many pills that my liver enzymes went crazy and as a result, my doctor actually asked me how often I drank! Uh, it wasn’t the pills…it was the drugs. My back doctor said “There is always surgery.” No thanks I said and got my ass in the gym. My husband had already started lifting to fix his back and I was about to do the same. Five months later, I was deadlifting close to 160 pounds, squatting, pressing….you get the picture. It has been two years since the “episode” as I like to call it. Now, at age 37 and turning 38 this year, I am dancing again. I just finished my dance season and am in rehearsal for next one. I continue to train hard and am so happy that now I get to train other women the same way and watch them get stronger, get leaner, gain more confidence…..in fact, I am currently working on my post on why women should strength train. The reasons my ladies have given me for why they love lifting weights I could never write in a million years because is comes from them….the honesty is amazing. They are beautiful and strong and love every minute they spend in my gym. Thanks for being such an inspiration to me and women everywhere Nia. Rock on. ;-)

    • Nia Shanks

      Awesome and inspiring on so many levels, Emily. Thank you for sharing.

  • http://www.facebook.com/debolightful Deborah J Munson

    I’m just starting.  It seems a little scary because I have such a ways to go.  But your quote below really hit home.  That confidence was there when I was younger but hasn’t been around for many years.

    “Most women aren’t aware of the physical, and mental, strength they truly possess. However, once they increase their strength and start squatting and deadlifting well over their bodyweight, or busting out flawless sets of push-ups, inverted rows, chin-ups and parallel bar dips, they become aware of their true abilities.”

    I found your article on Facebook.  Fit Jerk shared it.

     https://www.facebook.com/#!/FitJerk.FanPage

    • Nia Shanks

      Thanks, Deborah. Definitely check out the article I linked to for beginner trainees.

  • Heather

    Great article.  I’m a beginner at this and strength training is my focus.

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1546720580 Angie Rimer Covington

    I love strength training because I love being a strong woman inside and out.  I teach middle school.  I teach girls who have poor self images so I have a responsibility to lead by example.  I teach in a really poor county in South Carolina and I know that I may be the only healthy and happy adult a lot of my kids will see on a daily basis.  I work with Girls On The Run because I love running also, but I also teach the girls how to lift properly. Most of my girls have never lifted weights and never even knew what a kettlebell was until they met me.  I have several prior students (and their mom’s!) who meet me at the YMCA to train.  My students mean the world to me and I want them to know the joy I have in being a strong healthy woman.  They need to know that skinny is not the way to go, they need to be strong and healthy.  I hope and pray that they learn and live what I teach them…in Math, health, and strength! :)

    • Nia Shanks

      “Skinny is not the way to go, they need to be strong and healthy.”

      LOVE that! You truly are an inspiration. That’s awesome on so many levels.

  • Leschreiber

    I train with a group of about 7 to 8 other people three days a week (interspersed with cardio on the other days). The camaraderie is incredible, but above that I can’t tell you the immense pride and boost of self-confidence I get in knowing how hard I’ve worked to become strong and fit (even though I’m not “skinny,” and I’ve gotten over that terrible social stigma that so many women think they need to be). When I started working out with our friend/trainer, he asked what my goal was. I told him it was to be lean and lose weight. But as I started training harder, I found that becoming stronger was way more addictive than being a rail. Being able to deadlift twice my weight is an accomplishment I neither sought or can believe I’ve been able to achieve, and strengthening every part of my body has led me to incredible results outside of the gym (like better cardio routines and just plain feeling great). And I absolutely LOVE seeing others get stronger and experience similar results every day. The people in our group vary in their fitness levels, as well as physical abilities. Our trainer’s 68-year-old Mom could barely squat her body weight when she started, and now she’s performing 10 reps of 50-pound goblet squats in less than a year (and boy was she timid when she started out, but you should see her now)! Absolutely unbelievable, and so much fun to watch! I look forward to every workout and getting stronger every day! I’ve always been athletic, but knowing that at 41 I’m probably in the best shape of my life is the most intensely satisfying feeling in the universe. And I love your inspiring, and witty, e-mails and blog posts, Nia! Thank you for letting women know how important it is to be a part of this fitness revolution!

    • Nia Shanks

      You are surrounded by a great trainer and group. That sounds so incredible!

      Congrats on your success, physically and mentally. It truly is a wonderful journey.

      Thank you for sharing!

    • A_addington

      Hi Nia I absolutely love this article!! I currently lift heavy using barbell but would like to start using kettlebells for strength training. Can kettlebells be as effective as using a barbell? I now squat 200lb using barbell and I want to maintain the strength gains Ive made but Id like to switch to using kettlebells so that I can workout from home. Any tips on how to make this transition? Thanks again for an awesome article!!! Andrea

    • Nia Shanks

      yes, you can still train hard with kettebells. Just like lifting weights, make sure you progress and get stronger. My good friend, Marianne, has awesome at home KB workouts at myomytv.com

  • Jennifer

    Great post. There is nothing better than feeling strong – emotionally, mentally and physically. And when you feel physically strong, everything else gets stronger too. I love that you feel like a rock star when you beat your personal best, or when you see you are as strong, if not stronger for your size, than some of the guys in the gym. Thank you for sharing your perspective and providing motivation to others to give strength training a try.

    • Nia Shanks

      Thanks, Jennifer!

      Ha! I know what you mean about being stronger than some guys in the gym. That’s always fun.  ;)

  • http://unblob.blogspot.com/ Cort the Sport

    I strength train because it helps me race FASTER and be mentally TOUGHER. It’s the perfect complement to my endurance training and racing. It gives me a psychological edge, and helps with muscle recruitment and fighting through fatigue. I have strength trained consistently through my four years of triathlon and have outright won my last two races….at age 45. That’s my testament for strength training! (www.CortTheSport.com)

    • Nia Shanks

      Awesomeness!

  • Sara Fleming

    Great article.  I coach a number of women for both strength training and weightlifting and they are always surprised that they don’t get “big and bulky”.  And the confidence it instills in my teenage girls is just amazing.  

    • Nia Shanks

      I definitely think strength training is an awesome endeavor for young women!

  • http://www.facebook.com/jrsmith001 Jr Smith

    Great article!!

  • http://www.mindovermayo.com/ Heather

    Former cardio queen transformed to weightlifting lover here!  I have so many reasons I love lifting.  I find new ones all the time!  Just this morning I did a 5×3 workout, so you can really pack on the weight.  I’m a very competitive person (mostly competitive with myself!)  So, I love seeing the look on people’s faces (meaning MEN!) when I walk over and grab 35 lbs dumbbells or throw on a 45 plate.  It’s a powerful and proud feeling!

    • Nia Shanks

      Awesome! Glad to hear of a woman being confident in the weight room!

  • Kalin McClure

    YES! to all of these.  And it’s just pretty dang fun to be strong. :)

    • Nia Shanks

      Agreed!

  • Lori

    My trainer and I follow you regularly.  We love that you tell women that they can lift like their men counterparts without looking like beasts.  I’ve been lifting heavy now for a couple of years and love it when my trainer says, “I don’t think I could lift that”.  It makes me proud to be able to “move heavy things” farther than I thought I could.  I do farmer walks with 2×65 lb. weights and feel like a titan after doing it!!  I was a “featherweight” bodybuilder at 19-20 and now, at 46, am in better shape than I was then….

    • Nia Shanks

      That. Is. Awesome!!!

  • Brnemec

    SO great! I wish this was the mainstream thinking! 

    • Nia Shanks

      I, along with Girls Gone Strong, are working on it!

  • Lponcin1

    1. All of thee above! I could not believe that all of these things happened to me. I have been training and eating clean for 18 months and have experienced all 8!

    • Nia Shanks

      Awesome! Keep up the hard work!

  • Juli

    Because I’m a doctor and I think you should practice what you preach. And I love to see the look on the guys faces when I can bang out more pull ups than they can.

    • Nia Shanks

      Awesome!

  • Mstevens357

    At age 45, I had to have my left arm amputated below the elbow.  When I was able to get back to the gym, I was determined to get both of my arms as strong as possible. I’m lucky to have found a great trainer who helps me find ways to lift.

    • Nia Shanks

      Wow. That’s incredible. Very inspiring as well, thank you for sharing.

  • Rie

    I started because I am 5’6″ and topped out at 215.  
    I started because I saw myself quickly moving toward the path of my mom (no disrespect intended), who has a chronic condition that dominates and limits her life.

    I continue because I have found that I am incredibly hard on and competitive…with myself.  I frequently hear “I bet you can’t lift another set” in my head (a voice that I must learn to ignore sometimes :-) ).  
    I continue because I have found that I like the fact that I can see the cut in my tricep, and my little tiny abs starting to show.  It doesn’t mean anything to anyone but me, but to me it is HUGE.
    I continue because it really doesn’t matter how wretched my professional day was, it never seems as bad after an hour flinging weights around.

    It’s been a short 3 years and tough 50 pounds, but I’m happier now with myself – more content as a person – than ever.

    And I can’t imagine a time that I won’t be jonesing to be done with work so I can get to the gym!  

    • Nia Shanks

      Wow. Incredible story, Rie.

      I love that you are doing this for YOU! Keep up the hard work!

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  • Susankwasny

    Because I enjoy being AWESOME!

    • Nia Shanks

      Ha ha. I love it!

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  • Im_peaches6311

    I just love the way it feels to lift heavy weights.

  • Thegetinshapegirl

    Since I started strength training so many changes have taken place in my life that are in line with what you outlined in this post.
    I am much happier with myself as a person. I achieved my aesthetic goals. Which came first though? Did I become happier since achieving those goals or did becoming happier help me become pleased with y appearance? They certainly do go hand in hand.
    Now I care way less about the aesthetics because I’m all about becoming the strongest I can possibly be and everything else is falling into place.

    I’ll be sharing this post with my clients (just like I do all the other blogs you post!!!)

    • Nia Shanks

      Ha ha. Classic “chicken or the egg” problem.  ;)

      Thanks for sharing!

  • Bethany

    You are a goddess!

  • http://www.ebeginnersworkout.com/ Scott Jones

    I can’t find one of your reasons that don’t apply to men as well.

    • Nia Shanks

      Agreed!

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  • Kristen

    Thank you so much for these words. You have no idea how much I needed them!