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Two weeks ago I revealed My Battle with Disordered Eating. If you haven’t read that yet, I highly recommend you do because it will provide insight into the following nutrition information.

And last week I posted the first follow-up to that article where I revealed Beautiful Badass Strength Training Principles. While at first glance it may not seem like training had anything to do with my recovery from disordered eating, it was a huge piece of the puzzle. Don’t miss that article; in fact, I recommend you check it out before continuing with this article. Go ahead . . . I’ll be here waiting when you’re done.

As mentioned in the disordered eating article, many of my current nutrition principles developed in response to that experience, and primarily out of necessity to heal my relationship with food and to keep myself from tail-spinning back into disordered eating patterns.

Because someone will inevitably argue with my guidelines, allow me to start this off with a disclaimer – the following information may not be appropriate for everyone. Just because it works for me and the vast majority of my clients does not mean it’s the best option for you.

I don’t believe any nutrition method is the end-all and be-all for everyone, and my guidelines are no different. I truly wish there was one simple fix for people with bad food relationships, or a single set of nutrition principles that worked easily and flawlessly for everyone, but that’s just not the case.

With that out of the way, I will state that my guidelines are simple and straight to the point; but simple does not necessarily mean easy, at least for everyone. If your current nutrition strategies are polar opposites of the information in this article, then it may definitely take some effort on your part to make the transition, at least in the beginning stages.

My Nutrition Goals

My nutrition goals, and those of my clients, are very simple and straight forward.

Those points are the driving force behind my current nutrition strategies.

I want to eat in a way that keeps my mind and body healthy and performing at it’s best. Beyond that, I definitely want to look good too, and so do my clients.

I also want to be able to enjoy some of my favorite foods like ice cream, pizza, burgers, homemade desserts, and other “not-so-healthy” foods without being riddled with guilt afterwards.

In my opinion, and that of my clients, there are more important things in life than stressing over food, meal plans, and anything else that has to do with food. Instead, we build and ingrain a few simple nutrition principles.

With all of that in mind, let’s move forward.

What I Do Not Focus On

To keep everything short, simple, and organized, I am going to lay out in bullet points the things I do not focus on or do when it comes to nutrition.

Why don’t I do any of those things listed above? Because I have done all of those things in the past, and they left me frustrated, stressed, and overly obsessive compulsive with food and eating habits.

What I Do Focus On

Now that you know what I don’t do, it’s time to share what I do focus on when it comes to nutrition.

I Like Intermittent Fasting

There is a reason I prefer intermittent fasting methods such as Brad Pilon’s Eat Stop Eat and Martin Berkhan’s Leangains. (More information on these methods can be found here: Three Methods of Intermittent Fasting).

Those methods of intermittent fasting are:

The first method of intermittent fasting I experimented with was Brad’s Eat Stop Eat. This is the method I used to re-learn the feeling of hunger. At first I was very nervous about going 24 hours without eating. But doing so allowed me to get in sync with my body signals once again.

The first few times I did the fasts, I kept think I was going to feel like I was starving as the day went on, but it never happened. Sure, I did get hungry as I continued the fast, but that feeling no longer scared me once I got used to it.

The 24 hour fasts also allowed me to discover times when I would ordinarily eat for some reason other than true hunger. For example, even though it was my originally “scheduled lunch time”, I wasn’t hungry. These fasts really helped me to get in tune with my hunger signals. (Note – sometimes I would cut the fast a little short, around maybe 20 hours or so if I was very hungry. I just prefer to listen to my body and keep things flexible and not force myself to fast for exactly 24 hours).

As I’ve talked about before in A Day in the Life of Nia Shanks: Nutrition, I naturally gravitated towards other forms of intermittent fasting as well.

Random Tips and Information

In Closing . . .

I must admit that I was quite reluctant to share this follow-up article. So many people struggle with similar disordered eating issues that I revealed in the first article, and I know they desperately want a way out. And because “I’ve been there and done that,” I feel a tremendous amount of pressure to provide useful information that others can put to use.

With that said, I am worried that it could make things worse for some individuals. Why? Because as I always say, one thing will not work for everyone. The nutrition strategies I used to defeat my disordered eating habits may not necessarily work for you.

It is a fear of mine that this information may not help some people, and therefore they may lose hope in fighting this battle. If this information does not help you, I strongly encourage you to look elsewhere. Talk to a qualified professional, seek out other information that could be beneficial. Whatever you do – do not stop trying to win the battle against disordered eating habits or eating disorders.

The battle can be won; I am proof along with numerous other men and women. However, your way out may be different than my own. Please keep that in mind.

Note – I will have a third and final follow-up article with stories from some of my fellow fitness friends where they share the struggles they had with food and what they did to get on a better path.

UPDATE – be sure to check out the stories from other ladies here: Food Struggles & Victories.

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  • Rachel

    Nia,

    I understand your reluctance to share this, but I'm so very glad you did. I'm someone who is battling disordered eating right now and you sharing your victory (plus tips) is something that is tremendously helpful to me. Even if your principles aren't the ones that work for me, knowing that I can overcome my orthorexia means so, so much.

    Thank you!

    -Rachel S.

  • http://www.beautifulbadass.com Nia Shanks

    Thank you for the positive feedback, and I truly hope you were able to get something from this article.

    I wish you all the best, and keep fighting!

  • Lisa

    Thanks so much for posting these articles, Nia. You have no idea how helpful it is just to know someone else has been through the same thing, and has come out the other side better and stronger than ever.

    Very much looking forward to the next installment.

  • http://unblob.blogspot.com/ Cort the Sport

    It's scary how easy it is to fall into disordered eating at any age. I ate like most typical folks for 40+ years. My only food issue, unbeknownst to me at the time, was making very poor choices! Food was just food.

    In the process of becoming an endurance athlete and revamping my eating, I've become aware, through experience, what a fine line we walk when we become conscious eaters. Food takes on additional importance and if we are not careful we can tie it too closely to our self-worth. I've slipped to the side of disordered eating a few times and have to be vigilant to maintain a healthy balance.

    Your clients are fortunate to learn from your experience. Trainers need to be vigilant for this dark side when creating new eating patterns.

  • http://www.beautifulbadass.com Nia Shanks

    Thank you, Lisa. I'll try to have the third follow-up posted some time next week.

  • http://www.beautifulbadass.com Nia Shanks

    Thanks for sharing!

  • Rachel

    Great article. I'm a nutrition professor actually on my way to give a lecture on disordered eating. What's not widely known is that males outnumber females in adolescent eating disorders which require hospitalization. Something to think about as a parent.

  • http://www.beautifulbadass.com Nia Shanks

    Wow. I had never heard that statistic before. I did know that males who compete in sports where they must meet a weight requirement (namely wrestling) are more likely to develop those issues.

    Thank you for sharing!

  • http://beheavy.wordpress.com Dana

    I'd love to hear more about your experiments with eating your French Toast types of foods after a training session. As a food writer sometimes I “have” to take part in what are essentially some pretty gluttonous feasts. And when I do, I choose to fully enjoy them and not try to be “reasonable” or limit myself, because like you say, one big meal doesn't change you any more than one day of good eating. But if I can somehow make my multi-course, multi-thousand calorie meals beneficial, well, that would just be beyond cool! :)

  • http://www.beautifulbadass.com Nia Shanks

    If I know I'm going to enjoy a lot of food (like my beloved French toast & ice cream or big meals like on Thanksgiving) I definitely prefer to get in a good strength training session before hand.

    If nothing else, I'll run some hill sprints before too.

  • http://www.healthismorethanapples.blogspot.com Heidi

    We make something as simple as food have such a control over our lives. It is very sad and it is heartbreaking to read your story.

  • http://www.beautifulbadass.com Nia Shanks

    Yep.

    That is why I don't take food too seriously anymore. I keep things simple and stress free so that food does not rule my life.

    It took time to make the change, but I'm thankful I was able to do it.

  • http://www.miketnelson.com Mike T Nelson

    Awesome tips for sure!

    Always focusing on the negative is not a good idea, so I totally agree with your thoughts.

    The worst thing someone can do is a “bad” food and NOT enjoy it. Why would you eat it then?

    I feel so bad about eating this pizza, but I am going to eat it anyway—bad idea!

    Either resolve your feelings about pizza and enjoy the heck out of it, or decide not to eat it now (note, I said now, not never).

    Excellent thoughts and we are on the same page!

    rock on

    Mike T Nelson PhD(c)

  • http://malpaz.wordpress.com/ mallory

    sounds almost identical to my journey and prescription i laid out on my blog(when i still blogged) a year or so ago….either way you made it very organized and easy to read. congrats, i wish more treatment teams would understand this concept and start focusing ED recovery on the right concepts

  • Cinthia

    I'm just learning all of this myself through experience and it's awesome to find others doing the same thing. Please keep sharing.

  • Rebecca

    So, practical question- how do you have yourselfclients hit protein requirements without really counting calories?

  • http://www.beautifulbadass.com Nia Shanks

    Just track the protein in foods. It's counting grams and not calories. For example, there are 23 grams in Greek yogurt, about 20 in protein shake, etc.

    I just make sure I get at least 1 gram/lb of bodyweight

  • Maria

    I'm just wondering, how long ago was this for you? My main question, I guess, is how long have you been training for strength for?

    Thanks Nia.

  • http://www.beautifulbadass.com Nia Shanks

    I've been training primarily for pure strength for about 5 years now, but I've been lifting for over 10.

  • http://sarigulk-art.tumblr.com Yasemin

    Nia,

    I really appreciate these articles you have written and your honesty. I know it is hard to talk about such topics but it really helps others. I find your simple approach to health refreshing, and as a 20 year old girl who's dealt with similar things that you've posted about, it makes me feel good to know I am not the only person who has dealt with such things.

    I love your idea of being a beautiful badass. I think this is something all girls should strive to become. Thank you for being such a positive role model for me, especially since there are hardly any strong females out there, and even less reliable information about getting strong for girls! Keeping the beautiful baddass values you preach in mind has helped me immensely in becoming a stronger, more confident, independent person.

    Thank you!!!

    Yasemin

  • Caitlin

    Hi, I just wanted to say thank you for writing this! I'm 25 and have been trying to get past disordered eating for 10+ years; I think this article has the potential to help a lot of women. I've used some of the methods and approaches you discuss, and they were the only ones that have worked so far. Right on.

  • http://www.999fitness.ae Amna Al Haddad

    Nia,

    Reading your post and your guidelines to food, is EXACTLY like mine. I had a similar path to yours once, did all the DON'Ts, and two years ago I found taking it one step at a time is really truly the answer.

    So that I did. I had an obsession with eating Macdonalds. 2x per week, and somehow I have managed, 2 years later, to not crave macdonalds, eat it once every 6 weeks or so.

    Just like you, I do exactly what you do. 80-90% of my food intake weekly is whole foods, lean protein, veggies, (fruits not so much yet!), some wholemeal carbs (often earlier in the day), and my extras – meaning ice cream which would be something I have post workout, as it works for me, not against me + in addition to a proper meal. I have learnt that through trial and error!

    Most people will tell you this what you should eat or not, but only YOU can know what works for you. I have been eating a similar way as you, and making gains every single week and my perofmance is getting better. I am still losing bodyfat, still gaining so muscles…despite the little things I like to eat, which are really not so much junk (5 types of ice cream flavors and 1 type of chocolate – not even anything!)

    I do not believe in cheat days or meals either, it's really bad reinforcement.

    I love training. I love the way I eat. I love my body (even if I am not yet ripped, but I am quite lean), and I am sure with time, when I am ready to let go of certain kind of food, as I have slowly let go of my weekly macdonals indulgences, I will see more results. Like I say, it'a process. It's an “emotional salad”: http://www.999fitness.ae/p/my-tedxajman-speech.html

    Rock on Badass women!

  • http://www.beautifulbadass.com Nia Shanks

    You're such a sweetheart! Thank you for taking the time to provide such amazing positive feedback!

    Yep, getting strong is AWESOME! I wish you the very best, and keep me updated on your training!

  • http://www.beautifulbadass.com Nia Shanks

    Wow. Thank you so much.

    I truly want to help, and knowing that I have helped at least a few people means the world to me.

    Please keep in touch!

  • http://www.beautifulbadass.com Nia Shanks

    Thank you so much for sharing your story!

    Keep up the awesome work!

  • LouLou

    Dear Nia,

    Thank you for posting this, and the other articles re disordered eating. I feel they have really helped me and given me some “food for thought” (for lack of a better term!). When I first started lifting, I wanted to be the “perfect” fitness girl and calculated every calorie, every gram of protein etc. After about 3 years of doing that, it got old, and I began eating more “normally” with too much reliance on processed food and snacks. The end result is that I work my ass off in the gym but don't have the physique to match….. Yes, I've got a bit of muscle, but also a fair bit of fat. You've helped me realise I don't have to go back to that extreme obsessional counting game to see some results. Thank you :)

  • http://www.beautifulbadass.com Nia Shanks

    Thank you for commenting and I wish you the best with your training!

  • Seth

    Nia,

    I know I am late on commenting on these articles, but they have hit home with me more than anything I've read. I have been struggling with very similar eating disorders for the past few years. This is exactly what I needed to hear. I was also wondering how long you originally did intermittent fasting for before you felt you were in tune with your body/hunger. Thanks!

  • http://www.beautifulbadass.com Nia Shanks

    I don't recall how long it took – maybe about a month or so. Thank you for the comment and I wish you all the best!

  • Julie

    Great clarification. I used to practice IF a few years ago and didn't even realize it at the time. I was active and working in food service, going to school at a community college, and exploring the world of training outside of high school sports. I'd been out of high school for a year and wanted to be an athlete again. I met the right coach and discovered kettle bells. Not to mention I found out that it was possible for me to do pull-ups and dead lift. It wasn't until I began researching fasting last year that I made the connection and have regained consistency with it.

    I have certainly had food struggles in the past. I floated back and forth from the commercial gym scene to a true athletic performance setting for a couple of years. Not that you can't perform athletically in a commercial gym setting, but I certainly wasn't. From meticulously counting calories and grams of anything and everything to feeling elated on a cardio machine I was wasting my energy on as the calories and minutes numbers ascended. I had also done a Figure competition that I don't plan on doing again. The mental struggles aren't worth any artificial gratification.

    I've learned that my strength and health is my pride and joy. Inspiring others to follow suit is my personal gratification. Achieving new strength gains is another. At 24, I am a work in progress and I love that feeling. Simply realistic goals with realistic accountability paired with a healthy mindset.

    Thanks for sharing your insight and information. You are certainly one Beautiful Badass!